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Refined encounters, for your future.

Women's Guide

Membership Guide for Women

96% member satisfaction — a safe, reassuring environment for you

POINT 01

Truly Exceptional Members

HAJIMETE NO KOUSAI CLUB is a members-only meeting place open solely to those who pass our interview and screening. We welcome members not merely for their appearance or status, but for their refinement, intelligence, and character.

Allowance

About the Allowance

1Given directly, on the day

The allowance is handed to you directly by the male member on the day of your date. It never passes through the club.

2Decided between the two of you

The amount is decided by mutual agreement between the two of you. The club never guarantees or mediates any amount.

3Registration and membership are free

From registration and the interview to introductions and meeting someone, women never pay anything. Expenses on dates, such as meals, are covered by the male member.

Examples of Allowances

First meeting

Coffee or lunch, 1–2 hours

¥5,000–¥10,000

Dinner date

Dinner, 2–3 hours

¥10,000–¥30,000

Ongoing relationship

At a pace that suits you both

By mutual agreement

These are examples only. The allowance is always decided between the two of you; the club never sets or guarantees any amount.

Flow

Steps to Meeting a Member

Scheduling your interview

Scheduling your interview

After you apply, our staff will contact you to arrange an in-person interview at a time that suits you.

Registration interview and screening

Registration interview and screening

We meet at a calm spot in Tokyo, such as a quiet café, to verify your ID and learn about your occupation and character. Only those comfortable with our club's standards and terms go on to register.

Introductions (offers)

Introductions (offers)

Once registered, your coordinator will let you know whenever a male member who matches your preferences sends an offer.

Arranging and confirming the date

Arranging and confirming the date

If you accept an offer, our staff will check both of your schedules and confirm the date, time, and place.

A reminder the day before

A reminder the day before

Our staff will contact you the day before to confirm the details, so even first-timers can feel at ease.

Meeting on the day

Meeting on the day

On the day, simply come to the agreed meeting spot and join the male member. Enjoy a lovely time together.

Voice

Member Voices

Reviews are shown in their original Japanese.

★★★★★

仕事を優先しながらでも、安心して利用できました

20代 看護師

★★★★☆

プライバシーへの配慮が徹底されていて安心できました

20代 タレント業

★★★★★

長期的な視点で寄り添ってくれる対応だと感じました

30代 広告モデル

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Here are the questions we hear most often about our club. Please see below for details.

What kind of male members will I meet?

Our male members include company owners, physicians, licensed professionals, and executives at international firms — gentlemen with both financial and emotional composure. Every one of them has completed an in-person interview and identity verification, and brings the grace and sincerity of a true gentleman.

Is my privacy protected?

So that every member can feel secure, we manage personal information strictly and maintain complete confidentiality. We never disclose it to third parties or use it for any other purpose.

Could my photos or identity become known to people around me?

We never publish your profile or photos online without your consent. Ordinarily, introductions are made directly by the club, and only to male members who have completed an interview and identity verification. If we ever feature you on the site, such as in an interview, it is only with your prior consent after confirming exactly what will be shown.

Does registering or leaving the club cost anything?

No. From registration and the interview to introductions and leaving the club, women never pay anything.

How do I receive the allowance?

The allowance is handed to you directly by the male member on the day of your date. The club never guarantees an amount or handles the exchange. Expenses such as meals are covered by the male member.

Is it all right to decline an introduction?

Of course. Whether to accept is always your decision, every time. Declining, even repeatedly, never affects your registration, and you are free to set your own pace.

Is meeting someone only about once a month all right?

Absolutely. We check your availability with each introduction, so please put your daily life and plans first and go at whatever pace feels comfortable.

What if we simply don't click when we meet?

Please don't worry. An introduction is only a chance to meet — it is never a promise of a relationship. If it doesn't feel right, a polite decline is all that's needed. Your own feelings always come first.

Do I need to report back after an introduction?

There is no obligation. Our role ends once the two of you have actually met. We stay entirely out of whatever follows, so please enjoy it at your own pace.

How is the date location decided?

First dates are limited to meals in public settings, such as hotel lounges and restaurants. The club arranges the time and place on your behalf and knows the plan for the day, so you can feel at ease.

Can I also use other clubs or matching apps?

Yes. You will never be treated less favorably for doing so.

Requirements

Registration Requirements

  • 1

    Women aged 18 or over

    High school students may not register

  • 2

    A photo ID

    Driver's license, passport, or My Number card

  • 3

    Japanese citizenship, permanent residency, or valid residence status (residence card)

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